Possible to remove center middle red “youtube play” button form iframe embedded video?

I want to remove the youtube player and center middle youtube red play button.

I want to control play pause by custom button.

<iframe width="560" height="315" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/xyz?enablejsapi=1&html5=1&rel=0&modestbranding=1&autohide=1&showinfo=0&controls=0" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe>


have already used the above parameters but this does not hide the center play button. is it possible to change that button?

need to remove this from the iframe:


please find following parameters which will be useful.

showinfo=0,video will not  display the title on video frame. 
controls=0,hides the bottom bar
autohide=1,hides the controls

please use following link for further details